Psikologi & Konseling

Dizaman sekarang ini…banyak orang hidup bukan menjadi dirinya sendiri melainkan orang lain, bahkan tiap orang mempunyai topeng masing-maising hingga tidak mengenali diri sendiri. Ini semua dikarenakan pengaruh dunia luar dan lingkungan dimana kita bergaul. Setiap orang hidup itu pasti menggunakan topeng. disaat seseorang orang menghadapi orang tua mereka pasti perlakuannya seperti ini, disaat seseorang menghadapi orang lain itu akan seperti itu, kemudian disaat mereka menghadapai orang yang mereka cintai maka akan berbeda lagi. Topeng disini dapat diartikan penyesuaian. Keadaan tersebut menjadikan banyak orang maupun kita tidak mengenali diri sendiri.

Berikut ini ada sedikit cara untuk bisa mengenali diri kita sendiri :
Didalam mengenali diri sendiri kita harus tau bagaimana diri kita sebenarnya, fakta seperti apa yang ada dalam diri kita. Fakta disini mengacu pada realita hidup kita selama ini…kenyataan yang kita hadapi selama ini…
Tentang siapa saya?
Seperti apa saya ini?
Kehidupan saya itu seperti apa?
Apa sih kelebihan saya?
Apa sih kekurangan saya?
Setelah kita dapat mengetahui tentang diri kita, maka kita dapat memberikan komentar untuk diri kita sendiri. Menyimpulkan tentang,,”ini lho saya…saya ini orangnya seperti ini…
Jika kita sudah memahami diri sendiri, maka secara otomatis kita akan menyadari tentang kemampuan kita sendiri…sehingga kita akan memberikan batasan antara “saya mampu…”saya tidak mampu.

Looking for money was very difficult for those who know not step step. So also in this to make money on the internet which we call the online business. Variety of ways and online business programs available on the Internet, all it gives us the opportunity to reap huge profits if joined in it. Big advantage we can get when we selective in following the existing online business on the internet. of all existing online business, it requires perseverance, maximum effort and must have the patience of us.

One way to make money on the Internet with ease is to store our files in www.missupload.com. There we are free upload whatever we want. Very nice is that we will receive $ 0.01 cash per some people download our files that we store there. Payments will be made by sending money via paypal if we had collected $ 10. if we join therein, we may be uploading files to shape our videos, music, photos, articles and other files. In addition to being a place to find extra money for us, indirectly, also a free file storage place for us. You also do not have to worry about in terms of speed file upload, using the large bandwidth allows us to upload a file with a large capacity. In my opinion, save the file we are there is a very good step for the do.

All the people in this world whose names are sure to like the music with his own flow itself, from pop, skirts, jazz,, regae and others. music ingrained in everyone in this world, people who like music certainly like to sing songs that he liked the song, singing the song is also sometimes done at the place where karaoke is requiring people to pay relatively large. Apart from this place, people who like music used to sing at home, at school, in the bedroom, too often even sing in doing when they shower in the bathroom.

We have a place to sing is very nice free and direct online only with the internet and a microphone. With a free sign up you can sing your favorite songs with a lot of people around the world. Anyone can become a member there without any restrictions for you., With the comfort provided by the manager, we can be free and feel the satisfaction of singing like in a karaoke place. The most exciting there is the existence of assessment in the form of points for us to sing a song sung by all members. Assessment is judged by management to assess the similarity of singing with original songs as well as our fluency in singing the song. That way we can be a Singstar there and known many oang there like a celebrity. Come join in the www.using2.com to get the exciting experience.

At the present time, most people consume cigarettes. Both men and women and even children under the age of smoking also. As with food, cigarettes are like opium in very difficult to eliminate. There has been much information about the dangers of tobacco counseling by health agencies, both directly and in public advertising media television and print media. However, until now the number of cigarette addicts every day instead of the less but the increase and people who quit smoking less and less.

Many people who want to quit smoking after learning materials from a cigarette or after discovery of how the dangers of cigarettes for her health but the body will experience great difficulty to stop smoking in his life. For those of you who want to quit smoking but have trouble, I suggest to you to use the formula to stop smoking, by using these formulas, you will stop smoking in 14 days in a safe, comfortable and without the return of the craving for cigarettes is common you. Have your healthy body with no cigarette smoke and feel the actual physical health

Pastinya semua orang tau yang namanya facebook, seluruh dunia tau tentang facebook tak terkecuali masyarakat kita di indonesia. Berbicara tentang facebook, evi mau share tentang mendapatkan dollar dari facebook. Oke. melanjutkan info dari mizz anna tentang dollar dari facebook, evi mencoba memberitakan kepada temen temen blogger yang lain tentang info tersebut, infonya adalah aplikasi paypal wishlist facebook yang memberikan maksimal $ 100 bagi kita. Metodenya adalah setiap ada orang ikut mendaftar lewat link kita masing masing, kita akan mendapat $ 1/orang yang mendaftar. Bagi yang belum mendaftar, buruan ikutan karena aplikasi tersebut mulai berlaku tanggal 16 November dan berakhir 31 desember 2009 dan kita akan mendapatkan pembayarannya pada tanggal 28 Februari 2010. yang mau ikutan dollar dari facebook silahkan ikuti langkah langkahnya dibawah ini :

Didalam kehidupan seseorang tidak akan pernah lepas dari suatu permasalahan. Dan permasalahanpun tidak akan selesai hanya dengan menangis (buat kaum hawa) kekerasan (buat kaum adam). Karena biasanya seorang wanita dalam penyelesaian masalah lebih condong menggunakan perasaan sedangkan pria menggunakan logika. Berikut ini ada sedikit tips menghadapi masalah buat kita semua yang sedang menghadapi permasalahan :

Watching a sports game especially football games is very exciting for those people who are the most popular branch menggandrungi on earth. Quite often people who love football do not hesitate hesitate to spend much money to buy knick knacks that football will pay a lot of money just to watch live football at the stadium where the match was held.

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For a family, have a normal descent is an absolute hope for all families. Expected children born normally and without any let alone less than an aberration. Existing disorders in children may vary, one of which is ADHD, what is ADHD? ADHD is a disorder experienced by children or adolescents with hyperactivity, Impulsive and lack of response to the stimulus coming from the environment surrounding the person (idiot). These disorders are not caused by low intelligence or anything else. Until now, almost 5 thousand children in the United States experienced the disorder ADHD. To treat children who have these disorders one of which is to provide the concerta.

Concerta is a medication officially allocated the total ADHD either by using drugs or therapy. with a trademark that has been registered at ALZA corporation, concerta believed to help restore your children or your relatives are experiencing what ADHD. what are you waiting, join with other families who have joined forces there to get a total cure.

Berumahtangga adalah awal dari hidup dalam kehidupan. Dimana kita semua akan memulai lembaran baru dan kisah yang baru pula. Dimana awalnya kita hidup bebas dengan kesendirian kita…setelah berkeluarga kita akan terikat secara tidak langsung dengan pasangan kita sesuai dengan batasan hak dan kewajiban pasutri.oleh karenanya kita harus menjaga keharmonisan rumah tangga kita.
Didalam berkeluarga, kita harus selalu menjaga keharmonisan rumah tangga sampai akhir hayat kita, tidak hanya diawal rumah tangga saja. Dibawah ini ada beberapa tips dari saya untuk menjaga keharmonisan rumah tangga “

JAGALAH CINTA

Cinta itu bagaikan cahaya jalan, jalan cahaya, jiwa kehidupan, dan kehidupan jiwa. Cinta pasutri adalah rasa cinta yang alami yaitu naluri cinta yang diciptakan oleh Allah dalam diri manusia berikut dengan segala unsur dan ciri-ciri khasnya, baik yang bersifat ruhani maupun yang bersifat materi. Perasaan cinta pasangan suami istri dapat ditumbuhkan dan dijaga dengan ketaqwaan. Taqwa dan ihsan akan menciptakan berbagai sumber kebaikan bagi seorang muslim dalam semua aspek kehidupannya, termasuk jalinan cinta kasih pasutri. Cinta yang dikelola dijalan Allah akan menghasilkan sesuatu yang indah dunia dan akherat. Cinta pasangan suami istri adalah hubungan rumahtangga dan perasaan. Dengan terjalinnya hubungan ini, pasutri akan merasakan ketentraman.

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menjaga hubungan cinta sangat di perlukan oleh para pasangan muda-mudi, agar bisa sampai kejenjang pernikahan. Namun, biasanya didalam hubungan percintaan pasti ada masalah ataupun keributan contohnya cemburu, over protektif, salah paham, kurangnya pengertian, atau bahkan timbulnya kejenuhan. Itu biasannya dikarenakan pondasi didalam menjalin hubungan kurang kokoh dan tidak adanya prinsip dalam berpacaran, karena didalam menjalin hubungan keduanya prinsip sangat dibutuhkan. Berikut ini sedikit cara menjaga hubungan cinta :

1. Jalinlah hubungan cinta dengan normal dan jangan terlalu serius .
Biasanya hubungan yang dijalin terlalu serius maka akan menimbulkan kejenuhan tersendiri. Namun, bukan berarti hubungan kita tidak serius lho..Keseriusan hubungan itu tidak hanya dibuktikan dengan kata-kata “aku sangat serius dengan kamu say,,aku akan setia sampai akhir hayat”,,ini semua malah akan membawa kita kedalam beban yang sangat berat karena sebenarnya keseriusan itu bukan beban tapi ketulusan hati untuk mencintai seseorang sampai batas yang telah ditentukan oleh Allah SWT. Keseriusan itu akan membawa kita kedalam hal yang monoton dan to be continue, tidak ada inovasinya sehingga munculah kejenuhan. Sedangkan didalam kehidupan kita butuh sesuatu yang sifatnya lebih relaks. Kejenuhan itu datang sedikit demi sedikit namun jika sudah sampai pada batas kejenuhan maka salah satu pasangan kita akan lari mencari yang lebih daripada pasangannya yang sangat membosankan. Anda pasti tidak mau kan pasangan anda mencari WIL atau PIL?? So..jangan terlalu serius..lebih baik santai tapi pasti dalam berpacaran, artinya dalam menjalani hubungan kita harus santai jangan terlalu serius tapi kita tetap memegang kata serius untuk kedepannya.

Motivasi diri sendiri sangatlah diperlukan tatkala kita akan memulai sebuah aktivitas atau suatu kegiatan, motivasi diibaratkan juga suplemen tambahan yang muncul dari dalam diri kita untuk lebih siap dan mampu menjalankan aktivitas tersebut dengan lancer dan menghasilkan hasil secara maksimal. Contohnya adalah kita memotivasi diri kita sendiri untuk berangkat ke kantor dimana diri kita bekerja atau seorang pelajar memotivasi dirinya sendiri agar supaya dirinya lebih bersemangat untuk menuju sekolah. Cara memotivasi diri sendiri, dapat dilakukan dengan beberapa langkah, antara lain :